—- Failure. I know the thought, I’m quite familiar with it. I understand convincing yourself that you’ve done nothing but fail, even when you’ve just made an improvement. I know how one can convince themselves that even at their highest achievements, they’re still failing. But why do we have to do that to ourselves? Why can’t we choose to every time we have that temptation to turn it around? Manipulate our mind in the complete opposite direction…
Insecurities are hell to deal with, but are you actually dealing with them? Or are you letting them control your life?..
No matter what you’re insecure about, don’t be!! It can be as simple as that, or it can be as complicated as you make it out to be. I deal with insecurities, but I make an effort not to let them rule my life. I wake up every morning and make the conscience decision that I will not allow them to rule me.  – Are there other girls who will look better than me? Sure! How about thinner? Of course! More fashionable? Yes… the list could go on and on. Don’t make the mistake of wishing you were them. Because are they you? Do you know what is SO COOL? No one is like you!! Just like no one is like me! You have such a big opportunity to become you – no one else has that opportunity. Choose to be amazed at your accomplishments, your abilities, your personality, and everything about YOU! Because I guarantee you are a freaking cool person – inside and out.
“Be who you are and say what you feel – Because those who mind don’t matter – and those who matter don’t mind.” – Dr Seuss
And just remember – that every time you finish something, or you see something different about yourself, give yourself a big HIGH FIVE and thank God you’re not like the others. Its so cool to be different. Its so so cool to be who you’re meant to be.
Love, Z